N\u00eb episodin me titull \u201cParis Jackson: Love, Loss, & Listening to Your Intuition\u201d, ajo flet pa shum\u00eb filtra p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e kaluar n\u00ebn v\u00ebmendjen e publikut, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me prind\u00ebrit, var\u00ebsin\u00eb, dashurin\u00eb, ndarjet dhe rrug\u00ebtimin e saj n\u00eb muzik\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Paris kujton f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb me t\u00eb atin, Michael Jackson dhe jet\u00ebn n\u00eb Neverland, duke folur edhe p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj, Debbie Rowe. Ajo prek gjithashtu humbjen e t\u00eb atit dhe momentin emocional kur mbajti fjalimin n\u00eb funeralin e tij.<\/p>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\nNj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebt m\u00eb personale t\u00eb intervist\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi p\u00ebr var\u00ebsin\u00eb nga alkooli dhe droga. Paris tregon se kishte arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb ku nuk mund t\u00eb ndalonte m\u00eb dhe se p\u00ebrjetoi nj\u00eb \u201cfund\u201d q\u00eb e detyroi t\u00eb p\u00ebrballej me veten. Ajo flet p\u00ebr procesin e rikuperimit, komunitetin q\u00eb gjeti gjat\u00eb pandemis\u00eb s\u00eb COVID-19 dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e lidhjes me njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb . P\u00ebr t\u00eb, sh\u00ebrimi nuk n\u00ebnkuptonte vet\u00ebm t\u00eb hiqte dor\u00eb nga substancat, por edhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonte nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme me veten.<\/p>\n
Paris flet hapur edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si sh\u00ebrimi personal ka ndryshuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e saj me miqt\u00eb dhe familjen. Ajo thot\u00eb se, duke m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr veten dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me plag\u00ebt e saj, ka krijuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitet, besim dhe komunikim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb thelb, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn q\u00eb nuk mund ta ndryshosh, por edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si mund t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh t\u00eb jetosh pas saj, me m\u00eb shum\u00eb vet\u00ebdije, kufij, dashuri p\u00ebr veten dhe besim te intuita.<\/p>\n
M\u00cb POSHT\u00cb INTERVISTA:\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Muzika dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebria<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Je vet\u00ebm 28 vje\u00e7. Muzika ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb kaq e madhe e jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde. E di q\u00eb ke nj\u00eb album t\u00eb ri q\u00eb del m\u00eb 21 gusht dhe dua t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Por p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, pothuajse duhet t\u00eb kthehemi n\u00eb fillim, sepse ti je dikush q\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe muzika \u00ebsht\u00eb fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb n\u00eb gjakun t\u00ebnd. Cilat jan\u00eb kujtimet e tua m\u00eb t\u00eb hershme ku muzika ishte pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs?<\/p>\n Paris: \u00cbsht\u00eb si t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh nj\u00eb delfin ose \u00e7do lloj peshku: \u201cSi ishte kur hyre n\u00eb uj\u00eb?\u201d Sepse muzika ishte gjithmon\u00eb rreth meje. U rrita me katalogun e Beatles. U rrita me shum\u00eb muzik\u00eb klasike. Muzika ishte gjithmon\u00eb aty.<\/p>\n Alex: P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk e din\u00eb, babai yt ishte Michael Jackson. Dhe ti u rrite n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb quajtur Neverland, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb aq i famsh\u00ebm saq\u00eb njer\u00ebzit pothuajse mendojn\u00eb se e din\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb. Njihet p\u00ebr parkun e loj\u00ebrave, kopshtin zoologjik n\u00eb oborr e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb. Por ti ke jetuar atje.<\/p>\n Alex: Si ishte nj\u00eb dit\u00eb normale e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb t\u00ebnde n\u00eb Neverland?<\/p>\n Paris: N\u00eb fakt, nuk u rrita atje. Isha atje vet\u00ebm gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Zgjohesha dhe shkoja n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n Alex: B\u00ebje shkoll\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, apo jo?<\/p>\n Paris: Po.<\/p>\n Alex: Pra zgjoheshe, shkoje n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn q\u00eb ishte klasa dhe b\u00ebje shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Paris: Po. Dhe gj\u00ebja q\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb e q\u00ebndrueshme gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb sime, q\u00eb filloi atje dhe vazhdoi kudo ku shkonim, ishte kjo: n\u00ebse sillesh mir\u00eb, b\u00ebn pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, b\u00ebn detyrat dhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, at\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkosh t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh kafsh\u00ebt, t\u00eb hip\u00ebsh n\u00eb atraksione dhe t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb kinema.\u00a0Ishte b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb se t\u00eb gjitha ato atraksione nuk ishin p\u00ebr ne dhe nuk na p\u00ebrkisnin. Ato ishin p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga familje n\u00eb nevoj\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb me s\u00ebmundje terminale q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shkonin n\u00eb Disneyland. Dhe kjo vazhdoi edhe m\u00eb von\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb nuk q\u00ebndronim n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb vit dhe ndryshonim hotele vazhdimisht. N\u00ebse jetonim n\u00eb Las Vegas, ishte: \u201cN\u00eb rregull, n\u00ebse silleni mir\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb Circus Circus n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb.\u201d Ose n\u00ebse ishim diku n\u00eb Virginia: \u201cN\u00ebse silleni mir\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb Chuck E. Cheese k\u00ebt\u00eb fundjav\u00eb.\u201d\u00a0Ishte e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb edhe me televizorin. Nuk na lejohej shum\u00eb t\u00eb shikonim televizor apo filma, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se kur po i studionim p\u00ebr film me z\u00ebrin fikur, ose gjat\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs n\u00ebse kishim b\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duhej.<\/p>\n Alex: Pra nuk po vrapoje rreth e rrotull n\u00eb nj\u00eb park loj\u00ebrash kur ishe shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl?<\/p>\n Paris: Do t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb bukur. Por ndoshta do t\u00eb isha rritur dhe do t\u00eb isha b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i paduruesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n Alex: Por ishit t\u00eb disiplinuar. Kishit m\u00ebsimet dhe ndoshta n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb mund t\u00eb shihnit kafsh\u00ebt n\u00eb kopshtin zoologjik.<\/p>\n Paris: Po.<\/p>\n Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me baban\u00eb e famsh\u00ebm<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Bota e njihte babain t\u00ebnd si \u201cMbretin e Pop-it\u201d, por si do ta p\u00ebrshkruaje ti babain t\u00ebnd?<\/p>\n Paris: Ishte nj\u00eb njeri shum\u00eb gazmor. Ishte shoku im m\u00eb i mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Alex: Mendon se humori yt \u00ebsht\u00eb i ngjash\u00ebm me t\u00eb tijin apo ndryshe?<\/p>\n Paris: Mendoj se humori yn\u00eb zakonisht vjen nga v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit dhe prind\u00ebrit. Zakonisht prej aty e marrim. Edhe vendi ku rritemi ndikon.<\/p>\n Alex: M\u00eb duket se kur je vajza e vetme n\u00eb familje, ndoshta ka nj\u00eb lloj trajtimi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Gj\u00ebra ku mund t\u00eb thuash: \u201cJam vajza e vetme, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb ose at\u00eb me prindin tim.\u201d A kishte ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb preferuar q\u00eb b\u00ebje me babain t\u00ebnd pik\u00ebrisht sepse ishe vajza e familjes?<\/p>\n Paris: Kishte nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje q\u00eb dashuria t\u00eb ndihej e barabart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. V\u00ebreja q\u00eb ai p\u00ebrpiqej shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb na trajtonte t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve nj\u00ebsoj. Por padyshim q\u00eb isha \u201cprincesha e vog\u00ebl e babit\u201d.<\/p>\n Mendoj se kjo thjesht ndodh mes djemve dhe n\u00ebnave ose baballar\u00ebve dhe vajzave. Ekziston nj\u00eb lidhje e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund ta shpjegosh me fjal\u00eb. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e bezdisshme kur rritesh. Kur filluam t\u00eb shkonim n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb normale, v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi mund t\u00eb flinin te shok\u00ebt e tyre, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb mund t\u00eb sillja vet\u00ebm shoqet e mia. Ka disa rregulla ku djemve u jepet pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb liri.<\/p>\n Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me n\u00ebn\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Ti nuk u rrite me n\u00ebn\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Nuk kishe nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me t\u00eb kur ishe e vog\u00ebl, apo jo? Si ta shpjeguan k\u00ebt\u00eb kur ishe f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/p>\n Paris: N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, kur isha rreth 10 ose 11 vje\u00e7, fillova t\u00eb pyesja p\u00ebr t\u00eb. P\u00ebrgjigjet q\u00eb mora m\u00eb mjaftuan. Pastaj u lidh\u00ebm kur isha rreth 15 vje\u00e7 dhe filluam t\u00eb afroheshim gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga fundi i adoleshenc\u00ebs. M\u00eb kujtohet q\u00eb zbrita posht\u00eb dhe ajo ishte n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e ndenjes me gjyshen time. Hyra dhe thash\u00eb: \u201cHej, mami.\u201d Dhe ajo tha: \u201cP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje.\u201d U ula, fol\u00ebm pak.<\/p>\n Pastaj dol\u00ebm dhe kaluam dit\u00ebn bashk\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si funksionoj, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit se pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb na prishin pun\u00eb. N\u00ebse hyj n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me pritshm\u00ebri, ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjehem, t\u00eb frustrohem, t\u00eb irritohem ose t\u00eb krijoj pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Kur hyj n\u00eb di\u00e7ka pa pritshm\u00ebri, krijohet nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante ku di\u00e7ka organike mund t\u00eb zhvillohet vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n Kur kuptoi sa i famsh\u00ebm ishte babai<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Ke th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb interesante: se nuk e kuptoje menj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb babai yt ishte i famsh\u00ebm. Madje ke th\u00ebn\u00eb publikisht: \u201cNuk e dija as q\u00eb emri i tij ishte Michael.\u201d Si fillove ta kuptoje?<\/p>\n Paris: E dija q\u00eb ishte i famsh\u00ebm. Thjesht nuk e dija sa i famsh\u00ebm ishte.<\/p>\n Kishte raste kur shikoja nga dritarja e hotelit dhe ishte nj\u00eb nga ato her\u00ebt kur pseudonimi q\u00eb p\u00ebrdornim nuk funksiononte. Shihja nj\u00eb det me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mbanin pankarta dhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla. Nuk isha aq naive sa t\u00eb mendoja: \u201cPo, k\u00ebt\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.\u201d Thjesht nuk e kuptoja shkall\u00ebn e gj\u00ebrave.<\/p>\n \u00a0Maskat q\u00eb mbanin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt Jackson<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat me t\u00eb cilat njer\u00ebzit ishin t\u00eb fiksuar ishte fakti q\u00eb babai yt ju b\u00ebnte ty dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve t\u00eb tu t\u00eb mbanit maska dhe t\u00eb mbulonit fytyrat kur dilnit n\u00eb publik. Si e kuptoje k\u00ebt\u00eb kur ishe f\u00ebmij\u00eb? Si e mendoje: \u201cN\u00eb rregull, duhet t\u00eb vendosim maskat\u201d?<\/p>\n Paris: P\u00ebr mua kishte kuptim. Ishte: \u201cN\u00ebse e b\u00ebjm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tani, pastaj n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb Chuck E. Cheese dhe t\u00eb sillemi normalisht, sepse askush nuk do ta dij\u00eb kush jemi.\u201d Kjo kishte kuptim p\u00ebr mua. Por e zem\u00ebronte shum\u00eb shtypin.<\/p>\n Alex: Mendoj se njer\u00ebzit ndoshta ndiheshin sikur kishin t\u00eb drejt\u00eb mbi ju, sepse babai juaj ishte nj\u00eb figur\u00eb kaq e madhe. Sikur ai ishte \u201ci yni\u201d dhe ne kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta komentojm\u00eb dhe ta shohim. Dhe pastaj mendonin se duhet t\u00eb shihnin edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, sepse edhe ju ishit pjes\u00eb e atij imazhi. Por n\u00eb fakt ajo ishte nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ju mbrojtur. A t\u00eb dukej ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e frikshme kur dilnit me maska dhe njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrpiqeshin t\u2019jua shihnin fytyr\u00ebn?<\/p>\n Paris: Nuk e di. Po p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb mendoj: \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb frik\u00ebsonte kur isha f\u00ebmij\u00eb? Merimangat. Humbja. Por nuk e di n\u00ebse kjo m\u00eb dukej e frikshme. Gjithmon\u00eb ndihesha e mbrojtur. Kishim gjithmon\u00eb sigurim. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb turmat b\u00ebheshin pak t\u00eb \u00e7mendura, por gjithmon\u00eb ekzistonte ai lloj sigurimi ku mund t\u00eb kapeshe pas nj\u00eb t\u00eb rrituri.<\/p>\n Vdekja e Michael Jackson<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Ishe 11 vje\u00e7 kur babai yt vdiq dhe ti fole n\u00eb memorialin e tij. \u00c7far\u00eb kujton nga ajo dit\u00eb?<\/p>\n Paris: Vitin e kaluar b\u00ebra nj\u00eb ushtrim shum\u00eb interesant, q\u00eb mendoj se m\u00eb ndihmoi shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoja perspektiv\u00ebn time mbi jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Shkrova nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, rreth dy faqe, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi i viktim\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Pastaj u ula me t\u00eb. Dhe shkrova edhe dy faqe t\u00eb tjera. T\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat histori, por jo nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi i viktim\u00ebs. K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb i pash\u00eb nga nj\u00eb perspektiv\u00eb m\u00eb e larg\u00ebt. U p\u00ebrpoqa t\u00eb shihja gj\u00ebrat e frikshme q\u00eb m\u00eb kishin ndodhur, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr, dhe t\u00eb pyesja veten: \u201cCilat prej tyre ishin pika fillimi?\u201d \u201cCilat ishin momentet q\u00eb m\u00eb shtyn\u00eb t\u00eb hidhesha n\u00eb nj\u00eb drejtim tjet\u00ebr?\u201d \u201cCilat ishin ato pjes\u00eb t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb do t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrroheshin n\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u2019u sh\u00ebrbente njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb?\u201d Prandaj shum\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyra si i shoh tani gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla \u00ebsht\u00eb: \u201cNdoshta kjo ishte nj\u00eb lloj iniciimi energjetik q\u00eb m\u00eb duhej p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur m\u00eb tej n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn time.\u201d Po flisja me mamin tim p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Ajo gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se mund t\u00eb t\u00eb ndodhin gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tmerrshme, por duhet t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh n\u00ebse do t\u00eb jetosh me mentalitetin e viktim\u00ebs. Sepse n\u00ebse jeton k\u00ebshtu, n\u00eb thelb po thua: \u201cUn\u00eb nuk kam asnj\u00eb kontroll mbi jet\u00ebn time.\u201d Ka momente kur nuk ke pasur kontroll dhe di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ka ndodhur. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment ke qen\u00eb viktim\u00eb. Por t\u00eb jetosh p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb me mentalitetin e viktim\u00ebs do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u2019i heq\u00ebsh vetes \u00e7do mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur fuqi. Pastaj, ku e gjen hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u ngritur dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cJo. Tani jam un\u00eb n\u00eb kontroll. \u00c7far\u00eb b\u00ebj tani?\u201d P\u00ebrndryshe, gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb n\u00eb kontroll dhe ti nuk ke kontroll mbi jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n Alex: E kuptoj \u00e7far\u00eb po thua. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia ime t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohem, t\u00eb kujdesem p\u00ebr veten dhe t\u00eb them: \u201cN\u00eb rregull, kjo gj\u00eb e tmerrshme ndodhi. Si mund ta p\u00ebrdor k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbyer dikujt tjet\u00ebr?\u201d<\/p>\n Paris: Pik\u00ebrisht. Dhe n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, kjo k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb fillimisht t\u00eb vendos\u00ebsh veten n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Kjo ushqen q\u00ebllimin tim n\u00eb jet\u00eb. M\u00eb jep jet\u00eb. Prandaj nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen ideja e pendes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Fjalimi n\u00eb funeralin e babait<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Kur ishe aq e vog\u00ebl, a pati ndonj\u00eb diskutim n\u00ebse do t\u00eb flisje n\u00eb memorial, apo thjesht vendose vet\u00eb?<\/p>\n Paris: Thjesht ndodhi n\u00eb at\u00eb moment. Ishte n\u00eb sken\u00eb. Dikush shikoi dhe ishte sikur: \u201cA do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb nj\u00ebri nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?\u201d Dhe askush nuk l\u00ebvizi. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb thash\u00eb: \u201cN\u00eb djall t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb! Do ta b\u00ebj!\u201d Dhe thjesht ndodhi.<\/p>\n Alex: A ndjeve presion n\u00eb at\u00eb moment?<\/p>\n Paris: Kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb syt\u00eb kthehen nga ti dhe thon\u00eb: \u201cDikush duhet t\u00eb thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka\u201d, nuk e di. Nuk e kam par\u00eb videon p\u00ebrs\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar sa shpejt ndodhi. Por mua m\u00eb dukej sikur gjith\u00e7ka po ndodhte shum\u00eb ngadal\u00eb. Mendoja: \u201cDikush duhet t\u00eb thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka. V\u00ebllai i vog\u00ebl nuk do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb. V\u00ebllai i madh nuk po l\u00ebviz. N\u00eb rregull\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Alex: Dhe ti fole nga zemra.<\/p>\n Paris: Po.<\/p>\n Jeta pas vdekjes s\u00eb babait<\/strong><\/p>\n Alex: Pas atij momenti, m\u00eb duket sikur gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde ndryshoi. Shkove t\u00eb jetoje me gjyshen, apo jo?<\/p>\n Si ishte ajo periudh\u00eb? Po p\u00ebrjetoje pik\u00ebllimin, humbjen dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb po t\u00eb shikonin publikisht.<\/p>\n Paris: Ishte shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Nuk kisha aft\u00ebsi sociale. Kisha kaluar koh\u00ebn me kush\u00ebrinjt\u00eb, v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb rriturit. Nuk dija shum\u00eb mir\u00eb si t\u00eb nd\u00ebrveproja me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs sime. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb pata nj\u00eb kurs intensiv p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar aft\u00ebsit\u00eb sociale.<\/p>\n Alex: M\u00eb duket se ke folur edhe p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb ke kaluar shum\u00eb koh\u00eb me njer\u00ebz m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. Si mendon se kjo t\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb rriteshe m\u00eb shpejt se bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e tu?<\/p>\n Paris: Nuk e di. Mendoj se isha e ides\u00eb \u201cT\u00eb jetoja shpejt dhe intensivisht\u201d. Doja t\u00eb rritesha shpejt. Kishte di\u00e7ka brenda meje q\u00eb donte t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetonte sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb ishte e mundur. Dhe mendoj se kjo ndoshta kontribuoi n\u00eb disa zgjedhje jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira gjat\u00eb fillimit t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb rritur. Por thjesht doja t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoja gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n Var\u00ebsia dhe momenti kur vendosi t\u00eb b\u00ebhej es\u00ebll<\/strong><\/p>\n Paris tregon se kishte arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb ku nuk arrinte m\u00eb t\u00eb ndalonte, edhe me marijuan\u00eb dhe alkool. Gj\u00ebrat po p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsoheshin dhe ajo arriti at\u00eb q\u00eb e quan \u201cbreaking point\u201d \/ \u201cbottom\u201d \u2014 pik\u00ebn e fundit ku kuptoi se nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdonte m\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Pas k\u00ebsaj filloi t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb b\u00ebj tani? Si ta rind\u00ebrtoj baz\u00ebn time?\u201d Ajo k\u00ebrkonte nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb re jetese: nj\u00eb rutin\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme q\u00eb ta mbante mir\u00eb, t\u00eb zhvillonte nj\u00eb jet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore dhe t\u00eb gjente m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u2019u qen\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Kjo ndodhi gjat\u00eb COVID-it, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebri situat\u00ebn edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb pazakont\u00eb. Por Paris thot\u00eb se, \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, ajo periudh\u00eb i solli edhe di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb: gjeti nj\u00eb komunitet njer\u00ebzish af\u00ebrsisht n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e saj q\u00eb ishin gjithashtu n\u00eb fillimet e sobriety. Ata kalonin pothuajse \u00e7do dit\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Kishte nj\u00eb lloj mir\u00ebkuptimi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb e di \u00e7far\u00eb po kalon ti dhe ti e di \u00e7far\u00eb po kaloj un\u00eb.\u201d Dhe pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebtu ajo thekson r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e komunitetit dhe lidhjes me njer\u00ebzit. P\u00ebrmend edhe iden\u00eb se: \u201cE kund\u00ebrta e var\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja.\u201d Pra, p\u00ebr Paris, dalja nga var\u00ebsia nuk ishte thjesht \u201cndalo drog\u00ebn dhe alkoolin\u201d. Ishte edhe nd\u00ebrtimi i nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb re \u2014 komunitet, rutin\u00eb, spiritualitet, sh\u00ebrbim ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, lidhje reale me njer\u00ebzit.<\/p>\n Pasi u b\u00eb es\u00ebll, filloi t\u00eb punonte me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me veten, dhe kjo m\u00eb pas ndryshoi miq\u00ebsit\u00eb, familjen, dashurin\u00eb dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si krijon muzik\u00eb. Paris shpjegon se pasi u rikuperua, ndryshimi m\u00eb i madh nuk ishte vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ndaloi drog\u00ebn dhe alkoolin, por q\u00eb filloi t\u00eb m\u00ebsonte si t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme me veten. Ajo thot\u00eb se gjat\u00eb vitit t\u00eb fundit e ka par\u00eb shum\u00eb qart\u00eb se si m\u00ebnyra si sillet me veten ka krijuar nj\u00eb efekt zinxhir n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e saj me miqt\u00eb dhe familjen. P\u00ebr shembull, me shoqen e saj m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ka 10 vjet miq\u00ebsi, tani jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb biseda t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta dhe t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb besim, af\u00ebrsi dhe intimitet. Nj\u00eb ide shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb q\u00eb del n\u00eb bised\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh q\u00eb nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cplot\u00ebsoj\u00eb\u201d nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n Paris thot\u00eb, n\u00eb thelb: Edhe n\u00ebse personi tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb jep gjith\u00eb sigurin\u00eb, kujdesin dhe validimin q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon, n\u00ebse plaga \u00ebsht\u00eb brenda teje, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk do t\u00eb mjaftoj\u00eb. Pra, partneri mund t\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb, por nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00ebn q\u00eb duhet ta b\u00ebsh ti me veten. Kjo lidhet edhe me ndarjen e saj. Pas marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies s\u00eb fundit, ajo vendosi t\u00eb mos hynte menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr lidhje. Nuk donte takime, flirt, lidhje t\u00eb reja apo as ato gj\u00ebrat e vogla q\u00eb mund t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjesi validimi. E p\u00ebrshkruan si nj\u00eb \u201cfull reset\u201d. Dhe kjo i dha hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb pyeste veten: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb lumtur? \u00c7far\u00eb dua un\u00eb? A po d\u00ebgjoj intuit\u00ebn time?\u201d Pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebtu thot\u00eb se filloi t\u00eb kuptonte se nevojat e saj nuk jan\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb falje. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ajo lejohet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0non-negotiable<\/em>.<\/p>\n \u00a0Muzika, albumi dhe m\u00ebnyra e re e t\u00eb shkruarit<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo pjes\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante sepse Paris thot\u00eb se sh\u00ebrimi i saj ka ndryshuar edhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si shkruan muzik\u00eb. M\u00eb par\u00eb, thot\u00eb se pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e k\u00ebng\u00ebve t\u00eb saj ishin p\u00ebr djemt\u00eb, ndarjet, zem\u00ebrthyrjen, drog\u00ebn. \u00a0Tani po shkruan nga nj\u00eb vend shum\u00eb m\u00eb personal. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ndryshimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00eb artin e saj: nuk po p\u00ebrpiqet m\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7do njeri ta interpretoj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00ebn si historin\u00eb e vet. Po tregon historin\u00eb e saj, me detaje shum\u00eb personale. Pastaj biseda kalon te \u201cZombies in Love\u201d, ku ajo flet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar rreth drog\u00ebs dhe arratisjes nga realiteti.<\/p>\n Kur e shikon nga perspektiva e sotme, ajo e kupton se ajo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie nuk mund t\u00eb ishte e q\u00ebndrueshme, sidomos sepse t\u00eb dy po p\u00ebrdornin heroin\u00eb. Por ajo thekson se kur u b\u00eb es\u00ebll, fokusi i saj i par\u00eb nuk ishte \u201csi ta shp\u00ebtoj k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie?\u201d. Ishte: \u201cUn\u00eb sapo jam b\u00ebr\u00eb es\u00ebll. Duhet t\u00eb merrem me veten dhe me var\u00ebsin\u00eb time.\u201d M\u00eb von\u00eb, pas nj\u00eb ndarjeje tjet\u00ebr, sfida ishte m\u00eb e thell\u00eb: si t\u00eb mos kthehej te m\u00ebnyrat e vjetra t\u00eb p\u00ebrballimit t\u00eb dhimbjes.<\/p>\n Dhe k\u00ebtu lidhen t\u00eb gjitha temat, rikuperimi, vet\u00ebdashuria, ndarja dhe muzika. Ajo duket sikur po thot\u00eb se tani po krijon nga nj\u00eb vend ku nuk po p\u00ebrpiqet m\u00eb t\u00eb mpij\u00eb dhimbjen, por po e p\u00ebrjeton dhe po e kthen n\u00eb art.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr podcastin \u201cCall Her Daddy\u201d, t\u00eb drejtuar nga Alex Cooper, publikuar m\u00eb 12 gusht 2026, Paris Jackson hapet p\u00ebr disa nga periudhat dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. 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